Prayers for Grace
While this has nothing to do with the topic of my post, I just have to ask on a blustery, wintery day in April: Spring, where are you?? I wish You'd come out and stay for a while! I trust that some of you who read this blog are enjoying sunshine and warm weather, and that in due time, you'll send it towards Michigan.
Can I introduce you to Grace Mason? She is the mother of Jen, one of my really good friends from college. Grace found out recently that she has lung cancer. As a non-smoker, this was quite a shock (for numerous reasons). If you met Grace, you'd think she was the sweetest and dearest Mom around. She was always so kind and generous with her hugs and in opening up her home when my friends and I would visit her and her husband in Columbus, OH. While her scans have shown that there are two spots on her lungs (one on the left and one on the right side), there is still a teeny-tiny possibility that it is not cancer, which is what we are hoping for. She is going to have one of these lesions surgically removed on Monday, April 9th at the Cleveland Clinic. It's a major surgery, and she will be in the hospital for 7-10 days, and in the city of Cleveland itself for 2-3 weeks (the doctors don't want her traveling back home to N. Carolina until they know she is recovering very well). Why do I write about this? It's a simple, yet important reason: I'm asking you to pray for her. Will you circle your calendar on April 9th, or place a little post-it note on your brain as a reminder to Self to pray for her?
I have been traveling back in time lately as I've been listening to a series of messages that were preached by Alistair Begg at the beginning of my Senior year of college. I remember them well because of their content, but also because at that time, my close friend Noelle was undergoing chemo and radiation for her bout with cancer; the circumstances of life at that time were such that caused the Truth of the message to really resonate not just in my brain, but also in my heart. His series was entitled 'My Times are in Your Hands.' It centered out of verses 14&15 in Psalms 31. He had three main points that came out of that series that I thought were just good, encouraging Truth.
1) I am not cast about on an ocean of chance.
2) I am not held in the grip of some 'blind force.'
3) I am being trained in the school of God's providence. Prosperity should not be the occasion of pride, nor should adversity be the occasion for self pity. Why? My times are in His hands.
Not only through various circumstances I have encountered in the health care setting, but also in the lives of my friends (as well as my own life), I have seen this Truth resonate comfort and purpose into so many unanswered questions and deep wounds. Two of my three very close college friends have lost a parent due to cancer. My third friend now is wrestling through that battle. Why? My shoulders are shrugged, and I have to answer truthfully, ' I don't know.' But the Truth of God's providence remains, long past the questions and fears and hurts which slowly give way to peace and comfort...and purpose. For that, I am grateful.
Thanks so much for your prayers for Grace.
Job 10:12-- "You gave me life and showed me kindness, and in your providence watched over my Spirit."
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Once while I was cleaning someones teeth, the patient looked up at me and said, "What do you think about when you are cleaning someone's teeth?" I told him sometimes I go over my grocery list in my head, and things like that. But tomorrow I will pray for Grace instead. Keep us posted on how she is doing.
Sarah,
Please let me know how Grace is doing, I have been praying for her.
I will be praying for Grace as well. I remember when I was looking at my fathers casket Pastor Mark said, "God has answered our prayers, now your dad is healed." It was a good reminder that our perspective is limited. I remember Dad saying to me, "Phil, for the Christian, death is not the worst thing." Our grief during these times is often for our own pain more than our loved one. Jesus identified with that at the grave of his friend Lazarus when He wept. Sometimes the best thing you can do is just make it clear that whatever God chooses, whether health and extended life on earth or perfect healing and eternal life, you love them and stand with them in prayer. Grace is blessed to have a friend named Sarah (as are we all). By the way, its good to see you writing again. This is such a great forum for sharing joys and hurts, triumphs and fears, prayers and praise.
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